i hate being a lawyer what else can i do

by Prof. Keely Streich III 4 min read

If you’re on the edge of burning it all down as a lawyer, or you already have and need advice, here are some tips on what to do next. Tip 1: ReTrain Your Brain Because we are risk-averse, stepping out into the unknown to take back the reins of our legal career means retraining our way of thinking.

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What are the signs of a bad lawyer?

Unprofessional or unethical behavior can include:

  • Arriving late or failing to show up for important meetings, or missing court dates
  • Making decisions of importance about your case without discussing it with you first
  • Missing filing deadlines, filing paperwork incorrectly or filing the wrong paperwork with the court
  • Refusing to return your calls or messages within a reasonable timeframe

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Why do people say 'I am not a lawyer'?

  • 1. The work Most attorneys work about six days a week, generally fifty plus hours per week, and the norm now is to be available anywhere at any time. ...
  • 2. The nature of the attorney-client relationship A lawyer’s responsibility is to take on other people’s problems and find solutions. ...
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What is the hardest part of being a lawyer?

What Is a Lawyer's Hardest Job?

  • Overzealousness. Lawyers often must deal with arm-chair attorneys -- the clients who believe they know more about the law than the licensed attorney they hired to represent them.
  • Moral Dilemma. ...
  • Interpretation. ...
  • Fees. ...

Why you should not go to Law School?

Why law school is wrong for you #1: Student Loans. Law school is expensive and the prices keep going up. In addition to the cost of school, living... #2: Post law school employment. Despite what a lot of people think, many attorney jobs don’t pay that well – and it can... #3: Being smart alone ...

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What to know if you are in Biglaw?

Things you need to know if you’re exploring alternative careers for lawyers: If you’re in Biglaw, you’re not a failure because you’re human (even though Biglaw makes you feel that way ). If you’re trying to figure out what else you can do with your J.D., don’t rely on prestige ( it’s a liar ).

Is a lawyer good at separating their identity from their job?

Lawyers are not good at separating their identity from their job. I don’t know about you, but when I was working as a litigator, I felt like I had no time to be anything but a lawyer. There just wasn’t much time for anything else. That’s a pretty suffocating feeling when your job makes you miserable.

Is the legal profession stressful?

It’s no secret that law is a stressful profession. Many lawyers struggle with anxiety, and the legal profession’s mental health stats are grim. Especially if you have a clinical mental health issue (and many lawyers do, and don’t even realize it ), the legal profession is practically designed to exacerbate anxiety.

Is being a lawyer stressful?

It’s no secret that being a lawyer is one of the most stressful jobs that you can have. There are task forces, books, and a multitude of articles written about lawyer stress and burnout.

If you are uncertain about your career path, don't worry - a law degree will give you plenty of options in a wide range of fields outside the legal sector

Francine Ryan, Senior Lecturer in Law and member of the Open Justice Centre at The Open University, sheds light on some of the career opportunities available to law grads.

Internships

Sometimes it is hard to know what a job might look like before you begin. To get a better understanding of what’s involved, think about applying for an internship. Internships offer a real opportunity to gain work experience and find out whether a role could lead to the right career for you.

Civil service

The fast stream is the leadership development programme that is open to graduates with 2:2 as well as 2:1 and first class degrees. You can choose from 15 different schemes that include departments such as the Diplomatic Service, Houses of Parliament, and Government Social Research.

Working from a Member of Parliament

Members of Parliament employ people to work in their constituency office, the type of skills you need include excellent written and communication skills, and experience of problem solving all of which you will have developed through your law degree. MPs recruit a variety of different roles from researcher to constituency caseworker.

United Nations

If you want to explore an international career, think about applying for the Junior Professional Office Programme. Law is one of the disciplines relevant for the United Nations JPO Programme, which recruits for the UN Secretariat.

Secret Intelligence Service

You might be attracted to a career with MI6 – they recruit for a variety of different roles including intelligence officers and corporate services where you could be working in procurement, finance or legal. The Secret Intelligence Service website has more information on the careers available.

How to camera teams filming documentaries not incriminate themselves?

I've recently been watching some documentaries on crime where for example the camera teams are running along with drug cartels or human traffickers. My question is how are they not incriminating themselves or become accomplices? Since they are present when crimes are being committed. Thank you.

Do you watch lawyer shows or movies?

Are you a fan of how dramatic and over the top movies and TV shows portray lawyers? Growing up my mom was a fan of Law and Order so we watched all of them.

What happens if a police officer carries out an unlawful search, and finds drugs?

Asking purely out of curiosity. If the officer didn't have probable cause, or they entered property without a warrant, etc, would the case be thrown out? Even if drugs were found?

Why can't people who spread misinformation that could cause people to die, be charged with manslaughter or attempted murder or some other form of crime?

I see story after story of people who are dying or who have died of covid because they refuse to get vaccinated because they believe all kinds of bullshit misinformation they read on the internet or hear on Fox news.

Is it possible to sue a judge over his decision in a circumstance where any kind of appeal is impossible?

I mean in a situation where a judge may have exhibited obvious bias, unfairness or incompetence but an appeal in a more ordinary channel is not available.

What is an average lawyer's prospects for finding a job abroad?

If I was born and raised in the US (speak English, Spanish and French fluently however) go to a law school and get a law degree here, how easy would it be for me to find a job abroad? When I think of law, I imagine that it must be difficult to find a job abroad if you really wanted one, since each country has laws specific to said country.

Seeking transition out of entertainment law

Apologies if this has been posted before. I'm a fairly new attorney working in entertainment law at a large agency and I'm just completely burnt out. Between balancing heavy client loads and having crazy managers, I'm over the Hollywood scene. I work 70+ hours a week and get screamed at every single day.

Do You Hate Being a Lawyer?

The legal industry is a tough one, there's no doubt about that. Many of our colleagues work long hours and hold themselves to a near-impossible standard of performance. Burn-out is rampant.

Believe It Or Not..

Legal training is useful in a wider variety of fields than they tell us in law school. There are entire blogs dedicated to ex-lawyers. Our skills as researchers, writers, public speakers, and critical thinkers are valuable in many places outside a law firm.

It's Not Just You

It certainly doesn't help that the legal field has a history of viewing overwhelming stress as a rite of passage. Maybe you've noticed this where you work. Attorneys are encouraged to keep their nose to the grindstone 'til the job is done, no matter what.

The Rosy Past – Is Being a Lawyer Fun?

I entered law school at an inauspicious time – right after the bottom fell through the legal industry. Our dean, rather than give us rosy predictions of the riches we would soon accumulate, acknowledged what a difficult and uncertain time we were in. His commencement speech could be summed up as “good luck.”

Thinking About Quitting My Job

Then, I was put on a case, which was new and interesting at first, but quickly, turned toxic. I hated my boss, and so did everyone else. Five associates left our team in two years. Eventually, I was the only associate left. And I was doing the work of everyone who left.

Sometimes, Being a Lawyer Sucks

In April of 2018, a year before I quit, I had called my parents to let them know I was quitting. That was the first time I thought of spontaneously quitting. Instead, my parents urged me to stay until I had a new job. And here in February of 2019, I still didn’t know where to go or what to do.

My Future after Law

In January, I was excited to hear about two of my friends getting engaged. One was getting married in March, the other in July. One asked me to be her maid of honor, but my work calendar was nonstop trials.

My Legacy – Quitting a Job Too Soon?

I honestly thought that those that needed to work a “meaningful” job were naive or rich. But when you’re working 70+ hours a week, you start to think about what you’re giving up. You start to think of your legacy and the endpoint of all your struggles. Are you trading your life for something meaningful?

Leaving a Law Firm

In general, I don’t care about 95% of people’s opinions of me. But there were two groups whose opinion on my quitting gave me pause – my parents and coworkers.

Telling My Parents I Hate Being a Lawyer

A month before I quit, my mother called to tell me my brother was “in trouble.” I expected her to tell me that my brother had ended up on the wrong side of the mob. Instead, the “terrible” news was just that my brother might need to find a new job. My brother is a defense contractor so job hunting is typical.

The real, hidden reason why being a lawyer is miserable

Before you can move forward and become happy professionally, you need to first uncover what the core reason for your current unhappiness as a lawyer.

There is hope: What you can do now to become a "recovering lawyer"

Even though being a lawyer may not be your calling, we know there is another "alternative" career out there for you that you can enjoy, make good money in and add through which you can value to others.

Who said the law can be a valuable tool?

As Jess Salomon, the lawyer-cum-comedian puts it, “The law can be a valuable tool, but no matter what you’re doing with it on a daily basis, it can be very procedural and narrow.”

What is law school training?

Law school trained you to get to a firm conclusion in a reasoned way—and that’s precisely the skill you should apply when you’re looking at jobs that , at first glance, may not seem like a good match for someone who just graduated from law school.

What is the hardest thing to come to grips with?

One of the hardest things to come to grips with is losing the prestige that came along with the legal field. As a lawyer, you’re valued counsel to your clients, and let’s face it—just mention that you’re a trained attorney to anyone within earshot, and watch how the tone of the conversation changes.

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Internships

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Sometimes it is hard to know what a job might look like before you begin. To get a better understanding of what’s involved, think about applying for an internship. Internships offer a real opportunity to gain work experience and find out whether a role could lead to the right career for you. Thomson Reuters advertisefor a variety …
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Civil Service

  • The fast streamis the leadership development programme that is open to graduates with 2:2 as well as 2:1 and first class degrees. You can choose from 15 different schemes that include departments such as the Diplomatic Service, Houses of Parliament, and Government Social Research. There are a wide range of options that you can find more about by visiting their websi…
See more on lawyer-monthly.com

Working from A Member of Parliament

  • Members of Parliament employ people to work in their constituency office, the type of skills you need include excellent written and communication skills, and experience of problem solving all of which you will have developed through your law degree. MPs recruit a variety of different roles from researcher to constituency caseworker. If you are interested in these types of jobs, you mig…
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United Nations

  • If you want to explore an international career, think about applying for the Junior Professional Office Programme. Law is one of the disciplines relevant for the United Nations JPO Programme, which recruits for the UN Secretariat.
See more on lawyer-monthly.com

Secret Intelligence Service

  • You might be attracted to a career with MI6 – they recruit for a variety of different roles including intelligence officers and corporate services where you could be working in procurement, finance or legal. The Secret Intelligence Servicewebsite has more information on the careers available. Think about what your interests are and use that as a starting point for jobs and careers, a law d…
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